Sisters’ at War
No respite to this sibling hate
A poison buried in childhood fate
friendship fouled with resentment’s shard
love, play, laughter … sharpen its barb
Who is to blame? Their universe shattered
Mother? Father? A childhood battered
by broken vows, hardship, lies and deceit
locked in struggle for revenge so sweet
Suffer the children. A prize in this war
While death’s cruel shadow stands at the door
Parents’ to blame, their sacred vow lost
the children a blade, to win at all cost
Yet now the years have blossomed their lives
their love twines with hate, their sibling bonds hide
Parents’ hearts’ poison course through their veins
children conceived to grow up in pain
Suffer the children to come unto Me
Forgiveness and healing in your hearts must be
See through your parents’ fools’ hearts’ and pride
turn to each other, set grievance aside
Stand then alongside, your childhood love renew
Resolute your champion, your confidante, your muse
Free your sibling friendship to explore anew
Hold on to your sister, who deep down, is you.
∞
For Peyton and Emer: There is nothing I or your mom can do to undo the harm we have done. That which has been done is done. The seeds of self-destruction, planted by mom and dad, begin to blossom. It is up to you, as young adults, to look inside yourselves, and to each other, to find forgiveness and realize that what mom and dad did to each other, had nothing to do with you, and you need not drag it around with you anymore. January 2012
My daughters, 16 and 19, continuously at each other’s throats, pursue the war their exhausted parents have long lost the will to fight. The harm we inflict on our children through divorce, often only surface a decade later, when it is too late for regrets.